Showing posts with label Stacey. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Stacey. Show all posts

Thursday, January 14, 2016

Stacey, My Favorite Sister

Stacey is by far the best sister in the world for me! I am so grateful for her. Experiencing marriage and motherhood with her is one of my favorite things. I found some vintage photos and wanted to post them in honor of her birthday.

Stacey's BFF's: Becky and David
I love when I got to hang out with these three. They are hilarious and so fun!

Ain't no party like a Cheese Wheel party!

I think I was on break from BYU in this photo. 

BYU graduation August 2002

Stacey at about age 5

Sisters for life!

Saturday, September 21, 2013

The Circle of Life

A week ago we experienced the Circle of Life. We enjoyed a small boat excursion out in the Atlantic with Jared's family: Norb, Sabra, Ralph, Marie, and Brandon. On our excursion we were able to spread the ashes of Grandpa and Grandma Krause (Egan and Hildegard). They died nearly three years ago, but this was the first we were able to all be together. It was a very beautiful, small service. Being on the ocean like that was amazing.
My mom and dad kept our four children so that we could be a part of this event. On our way back to their house, my mom called to tell me my sister was in active labor and we should get to the hospital. I was so excited that I was already in St. Augustine and that I would be able to meet baby Noah so soon after his arrival.
Stacey was amazing and delivered that baby without an epidural. She told me a week before the birth that this was her goal. She nearly caved, but Noah came so quickly (about two hours from the start of labor) she was able to fore go the drugs. Noah is so handsome and a beautiful addition to our family. It is crazy that in the last 6 years, Stacey and I have given our parents 7 grandchildren! Life is wonderful.





Thursday, September 27, 2012

Real Food-Not Just for Hipsters

Real Food--Not Just for Hipsters
by Stacey Gillespie
 
I wanted to take a few minutes of time to talk about why my family is on an organic real food diet.  This is an issue that I am passionate about and if my words can inspire even one person to make one small change then I will be happy.  A few disclaimers: 1) our switch to real foods did not happen overnight.  Making all of these changes in one day or week would have been far too overwhelming.  However, we switched to organic dairy, produce, and meat in 2010 after I saw the documentary Food, Inc. so that part was already an aspect of my family’s diet. 2) I like to think I can hold my own in the kitchen.  It wasn’t always this way.  My husband used to do all the cooking in our house.  Again, this changed in 2010 when I stepped down from my position at work and cut my hours to two days per week so that I could stay home most days with our two kids.  Part of the deal was that I would learn how to cook. Turns out, I’m pretty good at it.  So the aspect of “home-cooked” meals wasn’t too daunting for me.  And lastly, 3) Eating a real food diet isn’t always easy, especially for me.  See, I don’t particularly like fruit.  Or yogurt.  And I really, really love soda.  So yes, sometimes it does feel like a sacrifice – I want to eat those Oreos as much as my kids do.  Now then, on to WHY we eat an organic real foods diet:
Here are the top reasons why we started eating a (mostly) real foods diet.  I say mostly because, as with all things, it’s good to break the rules every now and then.  Also, there are certain aspects of a strict real foods diet that we don’t follow on a regular basis (I’ll explain that later):
·         The Western diet actually makes us sicker – Journalist Michael Pollan has written extensively on the food industry and its effect on the health of Americans.  According to his research, four of the top ten chronic diseases (coronary heart disease, diabetes, stroke, and cancer) “can be traced directly to the industrialization of our food.”   The so-called Western diet is usually defined as one that consists of a lot of processed foods and meat, added sugar and fat, and a lot of refined grains.  Basically, a diet that isn’t centered on fruits and vegetables and whole grains.
·         Highly processed foods are an illusion – Those boxes and bags of convenient food items always contain added sugars and artificial ingredients and preservatives, most of which the average person doesn’t use in their home cooking and which are almost impossible to pronounce.  Some of the worst offenders that I’ve found are carageenan (a known carcinogen, which is a substance that causes cancer), natural flavors (these things actually trick our taste buds into thinking that we LIKE the food and that we need to eat MORE of it.  There isn’t anything natural about “natural flavors” – they are created in labs and are allowed to contain excitotoxins which can be linked to cell damage and diseases such as Alzheimer’s and Parkinson’s), and caramel coloring (another carcinogen that is actually on California’s list of carcinogens that require warning labels.  This is not caramel.  It is created by heating ammonia and sulfites under high pressure which creates carcinogenic compounds).  I was very surprised just how often I could find these types of ingredients in the foods I had in my pantry/fridge.  Even the organic snack foods have these artificial ingredients listed (I’m looking at you, cheddar bunnies!)
·         Low-fat and non-fat dairy products aren’t better for us –  I haven’t seen it explained better than this:
“To make dairy products low fat, it’s not enough to remove the fat. You then have to go to great lengths to preserve the body or creamy texture by working in all kinds of food additives. In the case of low-fat or skim milk, that usually means adding powdered milk. But powdered milk contains oxidized cholesterol, which scientists believe is much worse for your arteries than ordinary cholesterol, so food makers sometimes compensate by adding antioxidants, further complicating what had been a simple one-ingredient whole food. Also, removing the fat makes it that much harder for your body to absorb the fat-soluble vitamins that are one of the reasons to drink milk in the first place.” – Michael Pollan
·         Genetically modified organisms – GMOs are plants or animals created through the gene splicing techniques of biotechnology.  This experimental technology merges DNA from different species, creating genes that cannot occur in nature or in traditional crossbreeding.  Virtually all commercial GMOs are engineered to withstand direct application of herbicide and/or to produce an insecticide.  Despite the biotech industry promises, none of the GMO traits currently on the market offer increased yield, drought tolerance, enhanced nutrition, or any other consumer benefit.  Most developed nations do not consider GMOs to be safe.  In nearly 50 countries around the world (including Australia, Japan, and all of the countries in the European Union), there are restrictions or outright bans on the production and sale of GMOs.  A recent French study concluded that rats that were fed a diet of GMOs over a lifetime developed tumors and died prematurely due to organ damage.  In the United States, the government has approved GMOs based on studies conducted by the same corporations that created them and profit from their sale.  So really, the only way to avoid GMOs is to buy organic versions of the most common sources of GMOs.  The USDA does prohibit the use of GMOs in organic products.  Almost 80% of processed foods in the U.S. contain GMOs.  The products in which you’ll find the most GMOs are conventionally grown corn (88% of U.S. crops), canola (90%), soy (94%), and sugar beets (95%).
·         High levels of pesticides in conventional farming – The Environmental Working Group has a list called The Dirty Dozen that tells us which produce contains the largest amounts of pesticides, based on their own studies.  The organic standards regulate how much pesticide can be used on crops, so purchasing organic produce means we’re ingesting less pesticides (even after washing, pesticides stay on the skins of most fruits and vegetables).
·         Buying out of season, non-local produce means it’s traveling too far and being ripened in transit – buying in-season produce from local farmers (whether through a market, co-op, CSA, etc) means we are supporting our local economy and our fruits and veggies are fresh.  Also, USDA certified organic produce that you’ll find in a supermarket is grossly overpriced.  If you talk to the farmers at farmers markets and elsewhere, you’ll find that most of them do practice organic farming, but the cost of actually getting certified by the USDA is simply beyond their means.  So you can buy locally, get cheaper “organic” produce, and support the small farmer community.  Everybody wins.
·         Conventional beef, poultry, and pork products have become “big business” – the images shown in Food, Inc are startling and shameful.  The facts are that these factories are pumping out products that don’t even remotely resemble real meat and they treat the animals in a seriously inhumane way.  It has been scientifically proven that happy, healthy animals produce better, healthier products.  “You are what you eat eats, too.”  Did you know that farmers/producers have started feeding CANDY to their livestock?  CANDY.  Check it out: http://articles.latimes.com/2012/aug/22/business/la-fi-cow-candy-20120823.  The best way to ensure that we are eating good meat is to buy grass-fed beef and free range or cage free chicken and eggs.
·         Homemade and real foods taste BETTER – If I had known how ridiculously easy it is to make our own ice cream I would’ve started doing it years ago.  I recently checked the list of ingredients on a carton of low-fat frozen yogurt . . . sure enough there were carageenan and natural flavors listed.  But I can make my own ice cream using organic ingredients (whole milk, heavy cream, sugar, and egg yolks , plus a vanilla bean or some chocolate depending on the flavor) and it blows away anything you’ll find in a carton.
As I said before, those are the top reasons why we chose to go the organic/real food route.  We don’t avoid all GMO products (it’s nearly impossible to do so).  We still consume refined sugars (in moderate quantities) and we still enjoy the occasional dinner out at a non-real foods restaurant.  We just don’t do it on a daily basis.  I used to let my kids have the occasional meal at Chick-fil-A, but even that has been stopped.  Here’s why (http://www.100daysofrealfood.com/2012/04/25/food-babe-investigates-why-chick-fil-a/).  I switched from sugar to honey to sweeten my coffee.  I’ve found that a lot of the packaged snacks that I used to buy can be made (and taste better) at home.  As we ran out of stocked items such as flour, nuts, and cooking oils I replaced them with whole grain and organic versions.  When we do eat out, we try to support non-chain restaurants that source most of their ingredients from local farms, bakeries, and fishermen.  When I shop, I still buy mostly organic products unless it’s produce that we can peel.  And we’ve started buying our produce from a local company that sources directly from local farmers who do not use GMO seeds and who farm using organic practices.  I’ve found that it really isn’t more expensive because since we’ve stopped spending money on the snack foods, it has balanced out.  We eat applesauce, nuts, popcorn, cheese and whole wheat crackers, homemade granola, smoothies and lots of other delicious organic foods for snacks.  As a result, we actually eat less because real food is more filling and keeps us full for longer periods of time.  We don’t worry about calorie counts or nutritional content.  The whole point of real food is that if you’re eating a variety of these foods every day you don’t have to worry about those things.  My husband has lost a bit of weight and my weight has not changed.  My daughter used to suffer from constipation but now she doesn’t have a problem.
It hasn’t been easy, especially transitioning my kids.  My husband was the easiest, because he’ll try any food once (sometimes twice).  But my kids?  Oh boy.  I spent the first week afraid I was torturing, starving, and depriving them.  All I heard at every meal was, “I don’t LIKE that” and “Noooo!”  So I adapted.  I tried offering some unconventional “lunches” such as smoothies or cheese and crackers.  I let my daughter help me make our own homemade Cheez-Its.  Sloooowly, they’ve started to come around.  Is it smooth sailing?  Not yet.  But my goal is to teach them about the foods we eat.  To show them that we can enjoy our food AND that it can be good for our bodies.  Hopefully this way they will be able to make good choices as they get older and are on their own at meal times.  I won’t keep them away from non-real foods entirely.  I’m sure once they get to school there will be class parties and holiday events were processed foods are all over the place.  But if they are eating 90% real food, then I don’t have to stress about the 10% of processed foods they get elsewhere.
If anything I’ve said has struck your interest, here are some great resources for finding more information:
The blog www.100daysofrealfood.com was invaluable for me when I was transitioning.  The founder, Lisa Leake, is instructional and encouraging – never demanding or judgmental in her tone.
The Food Babe, www.foodbabe.com, has a more aggressive style, but if you want to see some great in-depth investigation into the ingredients in some of the more popular restaurants, then she’s the one to visit.
The Non-GMO Project has all the information you’ll need on GMOs and how to avoid them.  www.nongmoproject.org
If you’re looking for something easy to read with great guidelines, check out Michael Pollan’s book, Food Rules: An Eater’s Manual or the more extensive In Defense of Food.
Thanks for your time.  My sister is awesome and I’m so lucky that she was willing to let me borrow her soapbox for the day.


Wednesday, January 11, 2012

Thirty, Flirty and Fun!

My baby sister, Stacey, is turning 30 this month.  I love this girl.  We have been best friends our whole lives.  What a blessing for me.  Hopefully it has been a blessing for her as well. In celebration, I have composed a blog post dedicated to how awesome Stacey is.  I'm sure after reading it, you will agree with me about the degree of her awesomeness.

1. I'm pretty confident that Stacey is one of the most loyal people I know.  She would be the first to kick someone's booty if they crossed any one of "her" people.
2. She will never judge me for any choice I make; whether that is to gain a new faith or indulge in watching The Vampire Diaries.
3. She has always been my TV pal.  We really do love the same shows: Party of 5, Buffy, Angel, Alias, Gilmore Girls, Lost, Friday Night Lights...
4. Stacey always seems to call exactly when I need her to.
5. She has seen me through every single difficult experience in my life.
6. She always gives the best book recommendations.
7. That girl can BAKE! (Probably better than she even realizes.)
8. Stacey can do some amazingly accurate impressions.  Her work stories are the best.
9. She has a heart of gold.
10. I love how much she loves my children.  They adore her.
11. She is a wonderful mother.  Lyla and Logan are truly blessed to be her children.
12. I love the way Stacey sings.  The best is when I catch her singing songs to the children.  It always makes me smile.
13. Stacey has gorgeous hair. In high school she may not have believed that was possible.  Thank goodness for the straight iron.
14. She puts up with me.  She's been doing it all her life.  From Tara and I picking on her as girls to my "over-the-top morning person-ness" in high school.  Bless her heart.
15.  That girl's got gumption.  Tara's Playground is bound to be a great chapter in her life.
16. I love her smile.  It has changed a little bit over the last couple of years, but it still brightens my day every time I see it.
17. Stacey knows how to work the pout.  She's been perfecting it for years.  It is the perfect combination of "I'm cute and you better not mess with me, so give me what I want."
18. I "like" that she married Joe, a man that can do a mean rendition of "Total Eclipse of the Heart."
19. Stacey has, to quote Jared, "word dominance."  She just has a way with her words and I love that she is passing that on to her children.  Tell me what two-year old uses words like "sanitary" and "nocturnal" in conversation?
20. One word: Integrity.
21. I love her simple, carefree fashion sense.  Too bad the days of me being able to borrow her clothes are long gone.
22. Stacey is very level-headed.  If there's a crisis, I want her around.
23. She is modest.  I love this about Stacey.  In a world where modesty is in short-supply, it is simply refreshing.
24. Stacey's classy.  I think she is well on her way to becoming like our Nana.  That is the highest compliment anyone could ever receive from me. 
25. Stacey is always ahead of the curve.  For example, the wedding ring she chose nearly 6 years ago has become one of the most popular styles in the last year.
26. Anyone who calls Stacey their friend is truly blessed.  She always gives her whole heart in her relationships.  This cannot be said about many people.
27. Did I mention that she is soooooooooooo pretty?
28. She is charitable. Stacey is always looking to help others. She is always the first one ready to serve others, from washing the dinner dishes to taking the kids outside so I can have a break. She's always looking out.
29. So many memories that I look upon fondly are of Stacey, Tony, and I just hanging out: playing baseball in the yard, riding bikes in the neighborhood, roller skating in the garage, going to high school sports and choral events, summers in Hiawassee, and simply just sitting in the same room together doing different things and knowing you wouldn't rather be anywhere else.
30. Put simply, Stacey is my best friend.  I don't know what I'd do without her. I really think we chose to be sisters before we got to this earth. 
Aforementioned pout.

Mom, Stacey, and me at Stacey's shower for Lyla.

Unwanted hug.

Opening the best wedding present, ever.  (Note: This is the clown I was talking about in Tony's post back in November.)

Friday, February 20, 2009

Stacey's Shower

My little sister, Stacey, and her husband, Joe, are having a baby girl in March. She is going to be so beautiful, I already know! We had Stacey's shower a week ago, on Valentine's Day. It was a lot of fun and she went home with some good loot. I made her a baby blanket, but didn't get a picture of it. Shame on me. Here are some pics my cousin took: )

Mom, Stacey, and Me.
Stacey, Dawn, Avery, Lauren, Jenn, Me & Amy.

Me, Stacey, Dawn, & Avery.

Monday, August 11, 2008

Congrats to Uncle Joe and Aunt Stacey!

Just wanted to give a shout out to my little sister and her hubby! Congratulations on expecting Baby Gillespie #1! Ethan is so excited about his new cousin and will teach many wonderful things upon his or her arrival. Here's a picture of Stacey that shows just how ecstatic she is: ) Funny thing: Stacey and I were born about 17 months apart, we got married about 17 months apart, and our first children will be born about 17 months apart! CRAZY!!!!!!!!! We love you Joe and Stacey!

Saturday, July 26, 2008

Fun Photos

Aunt Stacey and Ethan hanging out in the pool. We did get Ethan a float and he loves relaxing in it. He seriously is one cool dude!
I put Phoebe in Ethan's crib for a photo op. Jared thinks I'm crazy, but aren't they too cute! Ethan just loves his Phoebe-dog. We often find the two of them playing together and Ethan is just laughing his head off.
A photo of Ethan in his little bathtub. He recently graduated to using the big-boy bathtub. Luckily his belly fat covers up any embarrasing moments.
I had finished feeding Ethan and had to tend to the dog quickly. I guess he wasn't done, because when I returned he had grabbed his applesauce jar and was licking the inside clean! (He hurt his nose earlier in the week at his school/daycare and it looks terrible.)
Here are both the "children" standing up in the crib.

Monday, September 3, 2007

Nursery Suprise


Really all we did to the nursery was move Tony out and paint. Aunt Stacey had a surprise for us and it made me cry! Since finding out we were pregnant, she and Uncle Joe have been working on a very special gift for us. Everytime they ran errands, they would pick up a children's book for their nephew. (Other members of the family also helped out by making suggestions for the new library.) All, I have to say is it is spectacular and I hope this gift will be a way to teach our son to love good books and learning. Aunt Stacey stated that she was hoping this would be "her thing" with her nephew. She is an avid and well-rounded reader and plans to share this with her nephew. With baby showers coming, hopefully the rest of the room will fill up and I'll post more pictures then. : )